Episode 84: Super Sensitive vs. Lack of Accountability

What's going on? It's nocturnal. This is Shady shh. Boy easy. Welcome to the rudely on his podcast. That's right. Actual vitamin something to share with the class easy. I mean, you can put on the table, just let us know. Yeah, just let it out. Wow, that is crazy chances. So I hear but you know before we get into all the things that we normally are, we want to give a shout-out Telco, who's nocturnal? Yep. It take some time off a bereavement, you know, we wish him well we send our prayers and condolences to him and his family.

Absolutely and it's time. I just want to hit like a 10-second, a silence for him. Can I also include I lost a family member last night as well. Absolutely definitely, no moment of silence, you know? Yes, Yeah, I'm hungry. It it Auntie so wrong. But did you see how they came up? That was due at listen. Shut up Schmidt. Shout out to them and I seen it so much in the last two days on social media. But shout out to them for recognizing the queen. Think that announcement was great. That was awesome. That was it was well pleased.

We could tell it was well, off script. A probably was like, ohhhh that we told y'all 30 seconds. We took this 15 seconds to say, hey, Auntie Oh, wow. To me how she's played with the name of them. Jonathan ain't seen the movie. I haven't seen anything. Oh. Oh my child. What? It's always the people born right after 93. Okay I made it. I was before before 93. You just act like a 94 ass, nigga, owe me. It means you get up on the rocky franchise the darkness, so you only see, none of them. None. Like no Credo Rockery right now go.

So you seen all the Rocky movies, couple of them go on Amazon. On video, we hang him. Are we still taking black Black Arts like yeah, you know, black history month is over but we can definitely take yours back is white but Creed is black. Wait wait we don't Scrappy is Italian right? That's how you style, he's not white. I like her. So they copy think he ain't what we is he ain't what you is, what you is. That's like we don't know which way to go. See that.

Maybe we should take it slow. Okay, so I saw a lot of commentary where people were like, why did Jamie Lee went over her? Because nobody remembers her in this movie. What was the name of the can tell you see it was? We are everybody know, black panther to be kind of ever at first. I thought she was going to for Halloween and see Donald. I thought and I was like, I was like, be smoking dick. Yeah, that movie was hot garbage. The best part was the end. Did the end when the grinder thing. Yeah. Give us the very best part was the in Thriller type person that movie was hot garbage and I just saw a screen was at 65.

I'd rather watch put some boots, whatever, whatever edition of screaming. This was a dream is definitely turning into Final Destination and I said, I don't know. So don't go watch it, it's cool. It wasn't, it wasn't, it was better than Halloween. How about say? I heard it was better than the last one. I didn't see five. I've but five was fine to me, like I didn't I don't think it was an issue with five but I feel like at some point these series run their course. Final Destination. Definitely run.

Its course. Dad. Like that? Yeah, that's five in this one. No, no. The one before this one. Okay, so the last one I saw the cousin was the killer, the girl. Oh we should. That's that way.

You an easy. Got some homework at this. He definitely got homework moving on. Y'all can't see Leon Mexico trips or no no no I speak spoons fluent Spanish. I don't speak French. We doing it. I just wanted, I'm Gucci the Mexican cartel to know that they are Petty as hell for that apology. They serve them dudes up on a platter. It was like, yeah, here ya go, we sorry. Sorry, let's go. We saw y'all saying a video when the rash act, the girl purse and took the 1500. First of all, stop going overseas and you don't know the culture.

You don't speak the language, y'all just over here, doing whatever the hell you want thicker, you still in America, don't know the Customs, anybody that goes to a foreign country know his certain areas. You just don't venture to and I'm an Explorer when I go to town but it's Should I'm just not taking my black ass to. Yeah, because regardless of where we are, I'm still black. It's the same way home.

We did it at home. Why would you operate and Mexico? Y'all, it's enough movies in another TV shows about Mexican cartels that you should know that you should, you have at least seen a synopsis of the shit that goes on agreed. If you ain't never seen. No, yeah. I say Narcos now. I'm saying yes. Don't worry about it.

All right, so next thing on the list is apparently Congress is considering a new bill for a four-day Work Week. Y'all supportive of oh yeah, that's a country already donated. I think China has a Ford. They're making it meant. They're proposing a bill that would mandate a four-day work week instead of five. So that's 12, hour, shifts, 10 It seems we're doing now, I think China doesn't but is it guaranteed Friday, Saturday, and Sunday off? Maybe no won't be way more deaths. Now, for real niggas is outside.

I think you actually start to feel a little better. I think that's how they get extra rest. There's a country already doing it. I think China Japan and they actually have studies that show. So can I look at it? Like you're doing better and our jobs thinking I would take a four-day work week. I don't mind but I still feel like that's trying to defeat the purpose of Be requesting another day in between Saturday and Sunday, like, make up a day. No, it's literally what people said that we can eat the weekend because most of us work Fridays and we work 9:00 to 5:00.

So whatever shift you were. So you don't really have Friday off, but I tried it and I think we the weekend. Oh yes. Was it part of the weekday Prix weekend? Right. So we want the whole weekend now. Friday said, so think about it like this. When you go on weekend trips, you most likely take off Friday in the you already offsetting Sunday, take off Thursday night, but if you're already off, you ain't got Take off right? And use your PTO being that the time. I can't relate but exactly. See. Listen we good.

I have the flexibility to work from home. Instead of taking Friday I will work from wherever I am really wish I could work from home, like I would work from wherever I am on Friday and just be on Saturday Sunday. If I got to save time, y'all getting cabin fever for working in the house. So two years ago, So we are only allowed to be home. One day a week at work like one day a week and his home. No, we did that. Like when I first started this job, like we've rotated, like one week I was at work Monday, Wednesday, Friday.

And then the following week I was at work, only Tuesdays and Thursdays and again, I will work from. I will go to work like two days like a Monday. So Wednesday looks angry at these gas prices. We need to go back to the rotating week because my Her you travel far. Exactly. So you understand why? I appreciated, when I first started working in, we was working three days when y'all travel point eight miles Northern Virginia. Virginia the song Take me home, either way in. Virginia is not for lovers because I hate it here and I'm not from how long is your trip?

Don't talk about him. Gosh, I'm just let you know that. I left my office at about 3:30. You see the time I got here. Yeah, exactly. You got to have a playlist for those type of ride playlist. FaceTime FaceTime. You was FaceTiming, you want to talk to somebody when you pulled up and pulled out I was like natural gas here but

Anyway close. So I've said this in multiple episodes and on social media, can I please take us out of the group chat with her son and that nigga? Yeah, I'm totally take us out the group chat that we asked to be in. I'm not, we asked to be there. I just don't want to look at it. That's what I'm saying. We asked to be in the group chat. It's like being in a freaking iPhone with Android. You can't lead a group chat, I got vacations. Yeah, I don't know what. I don't get any notifications. Asians but regardless of what platform or something?

Yeah and reference could all of this drama with. Now I'm a consider getting an abortion. We don't care. Take this out there but we fucking xoc. The last thing I saw was her pregnant In page is called take this out the group chat. I don't care if now I'm here I don't care if she gets an abortion is not my kid. Yeah but whatever she choose to do is cool but we tired we got enough. Listen. Zeus must own stock in shade room with t.d. Jakes. Yeah, got it because they are. Oh you didn't know that t.d.

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I dare you not gang. He's as fast. I don't know. You were literally sitting talking An informant, what they got you on tape, bro. What future say hey is this week. Hmm of his cell tournament itself are set me up. That is crazy talk. So it's clean your business like moving on because what you want to segue. Cool. Oh, I got something you want to stop or we start with that. You got time of day. Yes, I mean start with easy and they go to me. Switch it up a little bit. Hey do you think I got time today to but Bruce Lee sew-on, this segment.

Of we all got time today is not just Shady. We're gonna start with easy. I'm so sick. If I get cold. Insensitive, one more fucking time because these bitches out here extra sensitive. I'm a loser. This is this thing. You're a sensitive to women. Yes. Hello. And everybody's feelings because our are they sensitive or are you emotionally detached detached? They're sensitive. That's your story and I'm sticking to it. Okay. Anti not the comic. Fuck I just don't give a fuck. I'm just not. Well I so why do you have time today?

Because like first though I'm just go hard. Okay. Fuck this I hate that this is what I hate like. Don't contact me on some shit like hey how you been? I'm cool. You drive Sahara, what you want. What do you want? Why are you treating me like this? What do you want? That's the first thing. Second thing is you've got to straighten me. Don't try to segue into the oh hi you've been icing, you sent into space you into something. You're very much.

No. I don't so I don't you done. No, that was your one more thing, you know, a little thing that was on who's that that movie and it died, little weasel thing. I have a preference goddamn it if you like a weasel, weasel weasel yeah in The Suicide Squad. Oh weasel Sweet said, it died in the pool like in the water, like when it jumped out and drown sweets, just give me some. I'm good. Like, nah, everybody has their own preference, y'all laugh. Last time, you understand, I don't do my own weight class and I'm actually a pretty face, man.

I don't care about S. I don't care about titties long as you got a pretty face and your teeth are straight. I'm cool. But if you don't like it, Last little ditty. You will have a boy it don't, it don't matter to me. That doesn't matter to me. If I could just mention, I'm not him. If I'm not judgmental. If I were first fucking preference, we already knew that I do. If I refer to a big handsome over his way class, that is, that's enough. You prefer whoever's giving him to coochie you like big women?

Yes, he does. Yes, he does. We, I mean, even not considered where is the ball? I just, you know, I just dropped 60 pounds. I don't even Sitting next to her right now. I understand why. I just know. Ugly, is beautiful anyway. So I'm done now. Besides, I just don't. Do you got time today because you need to not say whether it landowner do is shoot. Steph Curry that thing and you might be to just to take your shot twice a year. Oh wow. Not a twice a year. Rejection is heart Draymond. Don't shoot a big three.

I mean check the hit a couple threes. Yeah she said rejection was hard. I can't relate moving on yeah.

Projector really, I'll shoot myself. I'm gonna check that a lot because they are you afraid of rejection that way. I just don't have to Humble. That's right. But it's I don't listen, I checked the life and a lot and it's not even a projection comes with life. But I'm not gonna sit here saying, I'm completely like arrogant, but any woman that I've seriously messed with or was in a relationship, she pursued me She shot the shot and it landed. So did you do to entice the situations? I'm handsome. Wow, it's so big.

I ain't got much to Rattle about. I just want honesty, just be honest. Yeah, don't have fucked up. Hold that door.

Honesty and you think that's what you want and you can't handle it. I swear I can handle it because I didn't say that. And if you are honest and you giving this straight for which is why I'm label that sensitive - in your asshole, - that's what they say. I want you to tell me, tell me. Are you just mean? No, he's a Gemini then I got shouldn't do it. Yes, it does. You know, but we're gonna get there, tell me the truth and it segues fuck. We're talking about this week Shady got time. I'm sick of pictures.

I end I started this last week and I said I was going to end it, but shit always fucking happens to me. Like you were saying, you sick of bitches with, so whatever it don't change it.

So easy. I'm very insensitive and mean, And, you know, apparently this individual doesn't miss my smart as much. She misses me. Oh, and she drunkenly called and said she loved me. My response was. I will try to be sensitive to

know. Why is it so hard for adults? I can't even say grown as people because these supposed to be grown as people, but why is it so hard for adults to take accountability? Hmm. And I even got the whipped dictionary for you mother fuckers who can't seem to Define what accountability mean we can we please get the definition, which one you want. You want the Urban Dictionary? Can we can we got masam? I'ma just simplified in accountability, is the willingness to accept responsibility for one's actions words and feelings.

Mmm-hmm, some people just don't comprehend that they can't understand when they're wrong, they have that. I'm always right? I gotta prove you, right? But you're not. And that. But here's the problem I had like in. I've experienced this a lot in my interpersonal relations, and even in this particular person that I'm talking about, is I ain't talked to you for three months, 90 days. So three months on this random Friday afternoon, you decide, you want to text me now, you miss me, so I said, oh, What do you miss now?

So in my mind, as I told my friends in the group chat, It's that nigga. Fucked up season taxes, it is use you taxes, didn't hit? So that - fucked up isn't it? We didn't sprung forward you Jose slick he's like that. Flip them and faith. That nigga fucked up Seasons. Now you're trying to double back. See the the the best thing about aside attorneys that is me I don't do that. Mmm-hmm no I played basketball the back and forth. Only goes up and down the courts between home. In a way, we ain't doing all that stuff.

I'm talking like, the way you do business. No. Like I just can't for the life of me. Understand. And why is that so hard? Like if you fucked up, why is it so hard for you? Just admit you fucked up. A simple apology, could probably fix a lot of shit. Some people don't feel like it. Yeah, right there. But then it's oh, I did fuck up. But there's no, but there's no fucking. But but however, Comma just because that takes away that just because we don't see the but Factor doesn't mean that it's not there for them fucking.

That's why that's how they're always going to feel if they know they want to blame themselves after they fuck up. The next one. Next one, once you to share the equal fucked up a bit and equal communication, right? You have to consider the other person's perception and feelings. Sure. You have to understand that your perspective isn't the only one that's a learned behavior. I might want to get is like I said, I am over 30. I only daughter, I'm raising his mind. I ain't raising nobody else in that beheaded or I'm sorry but 30.

I'm over 30. Hey, it's are you You were 35 yet. It's no, I'm over 32. I know what 33 yet I am. So I seen this quote because easy seems to have a problem with the women that he Associated which as friends in his various different friend groups that are very hyper sensitive. Right? Let's say what do you my friends? Yeah okay okay so so this is a friendship Okay, you want to give us an area and then I'll do my little, definitely, I'd rather not think it is because we thinking that you talked about like, females, you're dealing with.

Yeah, it's having a problem with you being insensitive? No, no, so no. These are just fucking females like having casual conversation, okay? It's the whole group chat, right? Girl was talking about, oh, y'all niggas need to start listening to your girlfriends and all this other shit because I was right about this, her nigga was sick, you know, he was throwing up at work. She told him go home, he'd still want to work, then eventually I said home, but she is boss. No, but she's so that's what she was saying.

She was like, she like y'all niggas don't listen, he go my input, you don't either Okay, she got upset like oh we did we not talking about me. You always saying some shit. The oven. Yeah you apologize. He trying to apologize his way into some coochie. So a random hit you with the your party underlining undermining what you were saying. Yeah. In the same group chat all I said because they'll because I was like, she like yeah because I'll listen no, you don't. So you ought to listen to your stories all the time.

This is he told me the story the other day. So I looked something up, right? So this quote stood out to me and it says hypersensitive people are narcissist And it's, because being held accountable was hard for someone with a fragile ego or self-esteem. I agree. I grew up with a narcissist. So it's yeah. Live in the household one. What was that? Like, horrible narcissism horrible. Bipolar hell. Yeah. Both fucking Jesus Christ. And it's kind of what I had to learn as an adult and and kind of go into therapy stuff like that.

You start paying attention to your parents weren't raised with the standards that we now have hope. So like me and my mom, my mom benatar's and me being sedentary. We butt heads all the time and we're as much as we are similar, we are very different. So, one of the things we always clashes me. Now, I speak up for myself and, you know, as the older generation, it's if you talk back to them is disrespectful. And what I always try to get her to Understand is I'm not being disrespectful for defending myself, right?

All right, like I just had this conversation. My mom yesterday and it was she's like she had me like a comment and we like at the end of her statement in the text message, was you gonna stop being disrespectful to me? So I always think no, because the text message, right? So of course always ask her like what are you doing? Disrespectful because if it's, you know, we have an exchange we don't we have a difference of opinions and then you go. Disrespectful. I had to tell my mom this like, I don't tolerate disrespect in the streets.

Yes, you are my mother but there's only so many times of my phone call you a bitch before you. Yeah. You know I'm saying like parrot relative smack anybody off of respect and I told her that I say I don't take disrespect in the streets, I don't think it for my friends. I don't take it at work. I'm not taking it from you. Right. My boss tried that last year and I told him where he could go right, you won't find me go find me. But You not gonna disrespect me at the same time? Respect brother, is I don't care about your job title, your job level.

None of that big on respect people's people. I had this conversation earlier, we're going to switch to go it. I was telling that employee that but I think I've been a employee and now, you know, I've been a boss in a sense. And in the manager, I understand both perspectives, right? But like, even with my subordinates in its people and other teams that would respect my team and my employees not be like, fuck, you talking to like that. And I'm like, well, I don't give a fuck about that, you know. Oh, their contractor.

Our the fuck about any of that stuff Powers people with people, you talk to them. Like they're grown, as people that shit I hate to do ya like power plant power trip shit. Like you know, and you know what's crazy, is good. Everybody was like my manager, like my manager and then his his manager, who's my boss, we've had conversations with a was like, you know, now I see where you're coming from, and I appreciate the feedback because I was like, I'm a straightforward person. I don't want you to give me the political answer of well, when you're in, you overview.

So Wonderful that you could talk to people just fucking tell me, right? Like, and I was like, I don't tell me at the end of the year when you got to do my annual review, now you fuck with my money, that's the shit that bothers me. Give me time to fix it. Like, if you told me this is something like a write-up, you give somebody a written a verbal, right? And then you go over. All right, now you got points now. Look, bitch, I didn't gave you for it Tom's, right fix it. I didn't told you and I could go into relationship to we give people chances.

I've given you a verbal. I've given you a written. I've given you a third warning now bitch I have checked the fuck out. Yeah. So So, I eat this woman. River all is back. I tell you and I even asked her like she calls me and I asked her, I said you're under the influence. You want had a conversation now, she's like yeah we can. So then I start sanding and then she has a rebuttal, you're not listening to hear you're listening to respond when you try to tell them that you don't want to talk when they're intoxicated or they Under the Influence any things like they get more upset like no.

Listen to me now you know talk to me now they know you're not listening to me. Purple is, you have to identify the other person, communication Styles? Well, yeah, because that's a big thing that played in ships and communication skills. And me and him have had this conversation where it's made him have a dog, like, fuck you and is one of our good friends and we the three of us like, man, fuck you bitch neighborly. Not really hate each other. Like do we actually love each other stop. Fucking me a bitch ass nigga we really have a friend that people think that I hate like we had talked to each other shit.

And I was like, that's a great, that's a good opener, but there's always a. But however, coma As time went on, you know, surely changed, you know, the she shot her shot and it just went you know now we out of bounds usually how it goes right. But when she's telling the story what the other person failed to communicate is she wasn't fully emotionally available for someone else. What are your thoughts on that? Do y'all feel like that is a valid question? That should be asked on day one? I think so.

I think that's a great. I'm not going to say shit day one but with In that first like not, they want trial period. I need to know if you got six girlfriend. Yeah, I need to know six side bitches. Let me see. And this is the analogy that she can't. When she when they were introduced to each other via social media. She told her she had a point guard or shooting guard, small forward and power forward and Center. She has a roster. I'm trying to be like that. So she's telling her, that's your problem.

That's your fucking problem. That's why there's no way I can respect about shorty, is she says, I have a roster. Mmm, but if this situation pains out to be something, I have no problem removing my roster, right? I don't like those type of situations. I can't expect you to cut the world off of me because I met you They're expecting like okay. Well shit you cut a person, you can come off like that fast. I mean, they're not that important not important is that have panned out to be more important or you have panned out to be a person that I see more than just a sexual or platonic relationship.

We have you. Because there is there, if people are categorized, people don't do that either. Like I know a lot of women, there are women that like me. Do I like all of them in return, though? I don't, but there are specific ones that will be around. We are Friends, whether you what you see from the outside of your business? What happens in internal is what matters it in everybody's business, how close we are. If we're only photonic, if we've been, intimate is nobody's business. That's true. But there are they have been new women who are intimidated by that friendship.

Oh yeah. So then I will tell them getting you back. Stay in your bag. Whatever. Did he say? They don't understand how they can even happen. That's something to a lot of people don't understand how two people can be on the same level and have an understanding. Like, for instance, I seen Suddenly that Monique said that she wanted to close her open marriage with her husband. You know, going in because we wouldn't want to open Mary, because she wanted to be open. He did not, but then he decided. Well, since you get to play, why can't I play?

She said, oh God, shut all this shit down. Pretty much, that's not well yeah, that's true. So I don't think they understand that they could conform to what she wants to keep her. That's also a problem. We tend to change ourselves for other two to four others to appease the other person in the Indian you become unhappy. Yeah, yeah. But listen, if you signed off on your wife to take three Dixon month outside of yours, that's your fault, my fair share of Conformity but thank you love. Actually as you know is taught to be submissive, I've had my child my errors of complicity.

These Jen season Millennials don't know nothing about some issues, crazy nothing. It's like oh you can't do this for me or someone So forth and you can't like no bitch Maverick. Do you want the first two right now? It's my mortgage doing, but my car payment due on the 13th. You see, I'm an old two weeks. I seen this girl dating profile. First dating profile. Yeah, you really be into some shit. Tell us.

Oh so we're doing here. It'll be like a virtual project mangle. You ain't serious. No that's why I'm left but not me. Did you see me laughing? I did what you mean.

Okay so it's basically like virtual podcast, okay? So I like you know the reason okay what kind of panels like literally like how we're having a conversation it'll be somebody I know or somebody they know hosting the panel and I'll just jump it and we'll just have conversations, it'll turn into like game night, some more shit but it will be offered at conversation rule. The nation, I didn't know it was until she was like. So you don't have a join my streams of my don't even have that app. Wow. Okay we're back to your not even sexual things a b-boy clearly and you know what boyfriend you use, Facebook.

Why are you single? What are you looking for you? The problem? Yeah, that's talk about. No, that's the question right there. What are you looking for? Do you know? No, I don't can't tell you that, but where are you? You don't know what you want. What do you put in your dating profile? Like you're seeking friendship. You're seeking - I'm like, what are you seeking my name? That's why I XYZ. So I like long walks down Broadway.

You know what kind of friendship their levels because you can't have any best but now I've come to like talk to a lot more people out of state, a lot of a lot of people, a lot of more people. This child has been left behind, it's a double positive right here. I learn to talk to people out of state and I just told him like this, I like meeting people that's like from different states and shit talk to them. Maybe I might visit them at some shit, so if I go out there, hey, Yeah, I'll have a tall guy, maybe serial killers, don't you?

Go out there and get some coochie. You date them outside of sneeze and they won't get close to you. They will be able to keep an eye on you. Trash. The pool is dress. I think the pool distress and everybody knows everybody. Definitely, I pee in it. Fentanyl definitely. But no, she got a lot of fat. We don't want that. I like to go to different spots. You say, you like craving. What? Traveling? Oh, nigga. I was about to say what I like traveling. Okay. I like doing different spots, like I know. Yeah.

Holy yeah. Because you can't explain it.

Because friendships one, if you're dating, you are supposed to start off as friends, right? That's true. So he may be the last relationship.

That's not what I said. What is it? I am a high maintenance low maintenance room?

No, not to me. You're my sibling is not the same, I'm just saying. Uh, anyway, I can't really you can't because bitch around here for you two days. I'm coming to find you two, am I high-maintenance? Yes. Easy sometimes, when you're hungry you want be really on. Yeah, yes how You want eggs, how could you eat is another question. But so what you go out of town and you meet this new fun fucking and exactly. And they show you around town. See the sights. They see food. He takes them to Pound Town one-way trip.

What happens after Palatine one-way trip? That's it. Oh, and he doesn't pay for nothing. Damn, I can't get a text back. I just want to master, it was I guess it's been a couple times where I went out of town. The Wily fire that area codes, you tricking. Okay? So it ain't bragging. If you got it, clearly, they got it cuz I ain't got it. Look like somebody else feed him. Besides, I don't know, don't bullshit. So the last time we all went out, I dipped off with somebody. Cool. Hmm. Hmm. Went out to hookah spot.

Hmm. Before leaving got day, we in a car. She told me. Mind you, I have my own money. She told me, I wouldn't it school whenever you come up with me, you ain't got to pay for nothing. Hey, I can't get no text back. I didn't ask for that. Okay, I didn't ask the next thing, you know, I was me and Wanda Sykes, anyway. Um, yeah she does.

Is she expecting something? At the end of the night? I know she went to downtown. I'm just like,

I'm telling you that now, but no single to pound town. She was so they see that he does not care is wrong.

She had a slower then she was like, block. If your first thing isn't, how much are your nails or wish your cash yet? Then we not talking blah, blah, blah blah. I don't want you anymore.

They just can't, they capture him because he captured him. Did you have continued to converse with this woman? Even though her whole bio is a lot? I didn't even talk on the beginning. Oh, I'm actually just don't know. I just seen this shit. Did you swipe? Right. No, I think that ten toes.

But no like this, do this show them were easy, I think should take some time to work on yourself. Yeah. Because you got to figure out what you want because now even in your you're older and you are father. Okay, so you got to consider what type of person you want to be around because your son is around Esther. And so at the end of the day, you got to figure out what you want. If you just want to fuck buddy say that that's what if you want to build. But you also got figured your fucking self up. This was, I don't know exactly what I want.

Do you know anything? Yeah, I know what I don't want. What you want to talk back and be hypersensitive. You ain't ready to go online getting ready for like marriage and moving in and co-signing cars. Some cosine comes back just so she could take it back. I got PTSD. Also, we have discovered that easy has too many hypersensitive friends. He'll know what the fuck you want relationship Wireless. Why he has all these problems? He's a hook use old with other holes in different area codes. So I think how we should close the show out, is with the, to be really honest moment.

Okay. I don't Drew you listen to us but are you familiar with the, to be really honest. I've had it a few times, okay?

We do hose to be really honest bottle. It could be anything easy. Don't know what the fuck you want. I did you just admit it? I thought you might want to take a moment. Someone go, first, we wanted an time to be rudely honest.

Stop trying to get to me through my system, facts, straight effects. Do you say that shit? Annoys me? I know. Damn, well that shit annoys me. She's at the door though that shit annoys the I know I don't get friendly Persona because I laugh with people that I'm comfortable with, but I'm not fucking friendly. Listen, they listen. I don't even when we out, I don't say nothing to nobody. They speak heading out. It Niggas be try and give me the wide open five, like yo, what's up? I hit him with the. I'm dead serious.

I don't so it's like they always go to her. Why are you brother? Don't talk will tell your brothers. You're like here I didn't tell him. He talked to me. They walk up to me. I just look at him like he talked to me. Hello, that's it. That's all. That should be able to wrong. I just need to test part of my screen to. I'm sick of these motherfuckers. Drew did you get yours together? Yeah. Yeah, man, I will have to revert back to the whole Christian rock thing like I just, you know, I we got to stop showing embracing exploiting toxicity like domestic violence like it.

That's all. Yes, take us out the group chat, please. I got a question. The domestic, if y'all are the same weight class, to be really honest, this is the last time we won't have my brother, when it's okay. That's, that's a legal fight. Okay. Only the fifth, to be really honest. Just say, one, two, three for us as adults need to learn how to be less hypersensitive more. Accountable, more emotionally available. Absolutely if figure out how to communicate with the Individual not as a whole with specific individuals.

One individual, one individual because you can't Kyle a communicate to my friends. It's not how I would communicate to somebody. That I am courting. It doesn't work. Now, even if we started as one of my friends and I say, fuck you girl, fuck you. What's that a girl took that offensive? Yeah, that I was talking to because I say, girl, fuck you a lot. I said it to her and she was offended and I feel is work. So again, somebody that quote unquote knows you? No no, just me. And she would just dating probably anyone today.

Oh Jesus. This has been another episode of really on his podcast. I am Shady. I'm he's burper. I've always been forever. Will be coming fly and I am dries. Thank you for tuning in. We out. Peace. Be still Cool. Runnings tickles. And she would just dating probably anyone today. Oh Jesus. This has been another episode of really on his podcast. I am Shady. I'm he's burper. I've always been forever. Will be coming fly and I am dries. Thank you for tuning in. We out. Peace. Be still Cool. Runnings tickles.